Ups and Downs of Love.

So,I am doing this post for a GREAT friend of mine. She has been going threw a rough break up and here lately I have been feeling a little helpless for her. I feel like there is nothing I can do to help. But sit here and listen. Although I have NEVER gone threw what she is going threw,I try to put myself in her shoes. And try to relate the best I can. She blames herself. Even though she is the one that broke it off.She was sick of the way she was treated. In this post,I am going to express my feelings about break ups. And love. So,here is goes. RAWR!!!(you know what this means girl) Every body at some point in their life has to go threw something so life changing,so mind blowing and so soul crushing to find out who they really are. Break ups are NEVER easy. They make your life feel so.... so..... so......lost. You go from having this person by your side every minute. And seeing this person everyday and talking to them and the jokes and the memories and the LOVE you and this person shared. (I am going to do this from a girls side of view.) Girl falls in love with boy. Boy and girl love each other for about 3 years. Boy makes a life changing decision to go into (i'll say) Army. Knowing he will be away from girl for a LONG time.(this is the part where boy should be CLOSER to girl)Boy is mean to girl.Girl feels worthless. Girl feels like the boy she fell in love with is NOT who she is with NOW! Girl decides to make an adult decision for HER SELF and break up with boy. Boy says means things to girl. Makes girl feel like even more shit. Inside,girl is DYING! =( Now,my feelings on this! Girl-Should not feel bad. She did the right thing. She is growing up. And finding out who she really is. Inside and out. And even though it is going to be hard. She needs to open those beautiful eyes and see she is ALIVE,BEAUTIFUL,SMART and FUNNY! ANY GUY would be LUCKY to have girl! Girl has no reason to beat herself up over this. Boy treats girl bad. Boy must SUFFER! (I feel like I am talking like a caveman!ARGH!) Boy-You are a DOUCHE MONKEY and I will CURB stomp you when I see you! jerkface


Girl-I hope you just laughed!=)

RAWR!


On a serious note though.
-I can't say this enough,you do NOT, SHOULD NOT, feel bad! You should not beat yourself up over this. You did NOTHING wrong! You did what you FELT in your MIND and HEART was right for YOU!


You are a strong person. And I know things right now are tough. But trust me,they will get better. You will be able to look at those pictures one day and say to yourself "Why the F*** did I love this douche bag?" And you will delete those pictures without crying! You will be able to look back at the old messages and comments and videos and memories and not feel like "the bad guy"(well,girl in your case). You will be able to look up and SMILE and know that you made it threw this.

And I promise you,things WON'T get worse. The first step is the hardest step. And that's the getting over boy part. Once you do that,SMOOTH sailing from there!

Things may not look good or feel right,right now. But they will get better.

Love is a SCARY roller-coaster. There are ups and downs. And some times more downs then ups. That's when you have to make a choice for YOU! Do what's right for YOU! And you did!

Please stop beating yourself up! Keep in mind,YOU'RE NOT THE ONE WHO CHANGED!

Hold your head up pretty lady!

RAWR!